In my experience and how my Spirit Training has shown me, Spirit People, like our Guides, do communicate in the best ways they know that their loved ones here, will understand. The majority of adults appear as the age they were when here, so that a clearer description can be given although there have been some sessions where an adult has shown themselves as younger to me, for their parents (or older relative), so as to pass on messages of evidence of happy times growing up. Spirit People will show us items they loved or what they were interested in as well as their favourite hobbies, work or sports. Often if they had a loved pet, their pet will appear as well or they will describe and name their pet who is still here. And yes, our pets do join us in the Spirit Realms!
In all connections, there will be firm evidence given from a Spirit Person to the person enquiring that will confirm their relationship and what is most important to them, when they lived on Earth.
When children appear to me, they also usually appear the age they were when they passed but with some children as with babies, I have seen from the age they were at passing as well as sometimes, older. This seems a bit odd I know but, all I can put it down to is that, as they would have grown here, so their families often ‘imagine’ them older so a child may appear to me as a certain age whilst also communicating that they were a baby or younger child. This is often another way for a baby to show me how long since they passed and the time their loving parents have grieved not being able to watch them grow older. ❤
When I notice miscarriages and still born babies, I see them very close to their parents necks and hearts. It is dependent on the closeness as to how I see the time since they passed. For example.. At a family group session one evening, when I was led to the Mother of the two daughters present, I noticed two still born children quite close into her neck (as though when you carry a baby close to your chest and their head is closer to your neck) but there was a fading of my image then a distance shown between each then a distance shown from their Mother. Next thing I saw was a ribbon from Mum to Dad. This too, showed me the time lapse. Both of the Daughters had never known that their Mother had had two babies before them! Dad gasped as tears came to his eyes and Mum broke down lightly crying, almost relieved. She had never told her girls because she didn’t want to cause them worry during their pregnancies. Fortunately, neither of the girls ever had problems and each had two beautiful children. It was an incredible feeling to watch a family so close, become even closer as they shared a deeply meaningful few moments sharing love and hugs. For me, this also showed that Mum had never stopped thinking about her other two precious babies even though she had mourned them long ago. ❤
The other part of these often asked questions, particularly with babies, is if they are re-born immediately. Again, in my experience, I feel they wait a period, just as adults do. I have never noticed a miscarried or still born baby re-born to the same parents in this lifetime. Some people may feel sad about this but I feel that our babies choose the environment and people they want to spend their childhood with just as everyone chooses before birth, to walk a path which gives them the experiences required to expand on their Spiritual Self.
I hope this is a help for you and if you have questions, please feel welcome to ask. I love being of service and sharing.
Love & Blessings ❤